by Ruth | Jan 7, 2014 | Motivation
Divorcing parents are very concerned for their children. Research shows that children of divorce parents can struggle with multiple problems. In the short term, most children of divorcing parents have a hard time. But parents can help prevent short and long term...
by Ruth | Dec 10, 2013 | Motivation
1. Differences between partners are not always a cause of conflict. Partners can comfortably have different religious beliefs, social lives or approach to their careers. People can cope if both partners appreciate their differences and treat them with respect. ...
by Ruth | Dec 10, 2013 | Motivation, Relationships
1. It’s good to have some fights. Fights help to air differences and keep the relationship from being routine. What is important is that there are more positive and enjoyable moments times than conflicted ones. 2. Fights are more effective if couples have a matching...
by Ruth | Oct 22, 2013 | Motivation
Does anyone remember the episode of “Sex and the City” in which Carrie wrote a column entitled “Why are we Should-ing all over ourselves?” I have referenced that episode hundreds of times in sessions with clients. Carrie said it perfectly. People...
by Ruth | Oct 22, 2013 | Motivation, Relationships
People often make an appointment with me because they feel stuck in one area of their life and they want to make a change. There is a lot of research on how people make changes in their behaviors and relationships, both on their own and with therapist’s help. After...
